Thursday, March 12, 2009

Morgan's Bad Habits

Morgan has become a climber. She will try to scale absolutely everything! This becomes really annoying when we are walking the pedestrian street full of restaurants where she must try to sit on every single restaurant's outdoor furniture. She couldn't quite make this one and looked at me and said, "I sit!" until I came over and helped.
Somewhere Morgan has learned that's it's ok to climb the coffee table with her books (or playdough). I'm probably too lax about telling her to get off but it's just so stinking cute!

We have two stools on the first level of the house - this one for me in the kitchen and another plastic Ikea stool in the bathroom so Morgan can wash her hands. Unfortunately, she knows how to pick up and/or scoot both stools to get where she wants. We're no longer able to leave knives on our counters!
Thankfully, Morgan has not learned how to climb out of her crib. I'm still waiting to hear that thud in the middle of the night!


Cry Baby




Hair

I thought maybe a silly, vain post was in order, so why not blog about hair? Ok, in reality I'm leaving for a week's vacation to Vietnam tomorrow, so I really don't have time to actually blog much. But, I wanted to post some pics for anyone following the blog. Bob calls this Morgan's "Nick Nolte" look. I think it's just plain disturbing.

Mommy got a new do as well. I've shortened it and gone red. Hopefully, it doesn't remind you of Nick Nolte, too.



Morgan's Colors

Morgan has been really good at learning her colors lately. However, we have learned that Bob wears too much blue. Consistently, when asked to what color blue is, she always says, "Daddy!"




Sunday, March 1, 2009

Mac n Cheese

As Morgan approaches her 2nd birthday, I am trying to introduce some dairy products back into her diet to see how well she tolerates them (Morgan is lactose intolerant). This week I finally bought a box of Kraft Macaroni & Cheese but made it with soy milk to reduce the dairy effect. I'm not quite sure how much actual milk product is in that strangely yellow processed cheese, but I decided to give it a whirl. After some initial reluctance, Morgan finally decided she liked it! At times, using her spoon wasn't fast enough, so she shoveled it in with her hands. We didn't have any problems that night, so tentatively, I think it was a success.

Unfortunately, I think Morgan has inherited a reluctance for leftovers from her daddy as she refused to eat a second attempt using leftovers last night. Oh well, at least it worked for one day.

Rain, Rain, Go Away. . .


The weather here in Shanghai has been absolutely frightful. For the last two weeks (plus), it has rained everyday. The Chinese say (like it's obvious) "It's the spring rain!" Maybe so, but I for one need to be able to walk outside for once without worrying about taking an umbrella or getting soaked. Morgan is getting stir crazy (as am I). We've even payed the exorbitant prices of KidTown for some indoor fun a few time - $18 for an entire day (but really, who goes the entire day?). It's supposed to continue to rain for the next week, finally drying up by Saturday. Our upcoming trip to Vietnam is looking better and better.

Some pics of the rainy day taken from my office window.
Morgan at KidTown on a rainy day




Pretty Toes

A few months back, I decided to paint Morgan's toes. She liked them so much, she kept staring at them and saying "pretty toes." So now, the ayi Cathy continues to keep them painted. We've discovered the easiest time to paint is while Morgan is sitting in her beanbag chair watching Dora. Morgan loves this so much, Mommy even went out and bought Morgan her very own shiny pink nail polish (for the bargain price of $0.75).

Chopsticks Are Hard!

One evening while Bob and I were eating on the couch, Morgan came up and wanted to try my chopsticks. She tried desperately to pick something up and eventually took a chopstick in each hand and tried to spear a vegetable in order to pick it up. It sort of worked, but from the looks of it, the whole experience was exhausting! Apparently, there is a reason why the Chinese don't teach their children to use chopsticks until they are about six.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Small, furry animals

The title kind of makes you think about cute little kittens or fuzzy little dogs, doesn't it? Come on, need I remind you that I blog about China? This ain't no story about fido. . .

Today I had to make a quick run to Carrefour, like most of you might run to your local grocery store, as I needed diapers and a few things for dinner. I know, just reading the name Carrefour can make shudders go through the bodies of my repatriated friends. Carrefour is French-based megastore that has food and a little bit of everything else - sort of like a SuperTarget or Walmart, only not as nice. Don't get me wrong, Carrefour in other international markets like Europe or Singapore/Hong Kong can be quite nice. But TIC, folks, (this is China); nice is a serious stretch.

Normally, I try to avoid Carrefour, but they do have the best price on the brand of diapers that I use, and admittedly, lately they have been improving in their prices and the amount of imports they carry. So, off I went. Things went well - I got most things, didn't find others - the normal shopping experience. Then I went to checkout. I was standing there people watching (a serious sport here in Shanghai) while waiting for my turn at check-out (not too bad, about a ten minute wait). When suddenly in front of me, I spot a rat running by. When I say in front of me, I'm not talking about twenty feet - I'm talk about 1-2 feet! Although calm and collected on the outside, I must admit that I got a little freaked out.

Now, I have to admit; it was a quick look - that little thing flew by pretty quickly. It honestly could have been say. . . a chipmunk? Although certainly not of the cute Chip and Dale variety. All I know is that it was about the size of the rat and was fast. I suppose one might see a rat in the grocery stores at home, although I have to say it never happened in the 30 plus years I was living in the States. Perhaps just seeing it might not have bothered me so much. But, I happened to notice that two manager-type people also saw this rat go by, but instead of showing concern, they pointed and laughed! Makes me think it wasn't such an odd occurrence.

Which got me thinking. If rats are a regular (or even semi-regular) occurrence in this grocery store, what are they feasting on? The store closes at 10:30 pm each night, which I think leaves plenty of time to hop up on those huge vegetable and fruit tables. What about that meat and seafood left out without any packaging (yeah, not so much with the packaging of meat here)? I continue to get more and more freaked out the longer I think about it. Which probably means I need to stop thinking about it. I've got five more months left here, and I doubt I can go that long without shopping at Carrefour. So, I'll try to banish that image from my mind. But, until then, Bob's doing all the shopping.

Monday, February 16, 2009

I Love Blueberries



Blueberries are by far Morgan's favorite fruit. Yesterday she went a bit overboard (ooops, I mean I went overboard by giving her too many). However, she had a great look when eating some frozen ones. Unfortunately, it led to lots of pooping today. When I came back from errands, Cathy told me she managed to get off her diaper during nap (I took off her jeans before putting her down) and pooped all over the crib. It was almost cleaned up by the time I got home, so you'll be spared pics of that! :-)

Sunday, February 15, 2009

South Beach Update

I am happy to report that after one entire month of being on the new diet, Bob and I are consistently still losing weight. The first two weeks saw us both take off about ten pounds - definitely a needed reinforcement after the difficulty adjusting to the new food choices. One month in and we are both down about 13 pounds - yeah for us!!!! What's mildly discouraging is that we both have so much more weight to lose, me especially, and with us trying to have a new baby, I am looking at a limited amount of time to actually lose weight before a new pregnancy will change things. At least I can attempt to not gain as much weight this time. Those 40 pounds from the first pregnancy didn't exactly melt off. . .

However, both Bob and I are still making good food choices, and honestly, we don't even miss our carbs all that much. Our limited intake of whole wheat bread or rice is really enough right now to satisfy what we want, and the continued weight loss reinforces our choices. I'm happy to have fruit back on the menu, even if it is less than what I used to eat. China really does have nice fruit choices and I sorely missed them the first two weeks. We occasionally make dinner "on the fly" and don't resort to our old habits of (lots of) spaghetti and meatbealls or ordering pizza. Even our few nights out at a restaurant (Valentine's Day, can you really diet that night?) we made pretty good choices and didn't overindulge.

This week saw me back down a size in pants, which makes me increasingly happy to reexpand my wardrobe that began shrinking since last summer. Now our goal is to make exercise more of a priority. For Bob, he does have a good excuse - he works a lot and often late. Me, that's a different story. I don't have lots of excuses (minus the one week after I fell down the stairs and sprained my ankle - ouch!), so I really just need to get motivated and get my butt back in the gym. But, that day is not today - too many errands to run in the short amount of time I've got while the ayi is here. Of course, I could spend less time on the computer. . .

Year of the Ox

Well, the Chinese have ushered in a new lunar year, the year of the ox, in typical loud, obnoxious fashion. After our first New Year experience in Shanghai when we were homebound due to pregnancy, we swore we would never again stay in China during the new year celebrations. Last year we spent a blissful holiday basking in the sun in Thailand with our good friends, the Faulkners. This year, unfortunately, found us once again at home in Shanghai. Due to the late return from our Christmas trip to the States (January 15), we found ourselves not exactly excited to hop back on a plane one week later for the new year. "We can take it," we thought to ourselves. I should have remembered our original promise. . .

To those of you who don't know, the Chinese New Year is perhaps the most important holiday in the calendar - similar to how most Christians regard Christmas back home. It's the ONE time a year where many migrants or city transplants travel back home to see their families. The New Year is not simply one day on the calendar, as one might imagine. It is a long celebration called the Spring Festival, starting on the New Lunar Year and usually ending with the Chinese Lantern Festival approximately fifteen days later. For the Chinese, they laugh, take a much needed break from work, catch up with families, etc. It's actually a wonderful time of the year for the Chinese with many ritual traditions handed down generations. What we westerners in the city most notice, however, are the fireworks.

Coming from the States, I had always equated fireworks with the once yearly display on the 4th of July. Yes, occasionally people set them off on their own, but with the increasing bans in selling fireworks in many states, this happens more and more infrequently. Of course, you have the late night ballpark fireworks, Cedar Point, Disney, etc., but for the most part, you see fireworks one night a year. Not the Chinese. . . Fireworks here are a specialty. Since this is the culture/country that actually did invent fireworks, I must give them their due. However, fireworks are so commonplace here (and when I say fireworks, I usually refer to the loud, obnoxious, supercharged firecracker type and not the pretty "flower in the sky" type) you can pretty much count on hearing them several times a month, if not more. Open a new store - set off some fireworks. . . Get married - set off some fireworks. . . Feeling a little bored - you get the idea. . . . It gets a little annoying. Not to mention the fact that these fireworks are lit right on the sidewalk and street so that if you happen to be passing by at the time, you had better look out. Life doesn't stop for pedestrian (or any type of) traffic here.

The Chinese New Year is an entirely different fireworks experience. Not only does every family (I kid you not) light off fireworks, they all have their own traditional night/time to do it(imagine 18 million people in the city of Shanghai). So, while one might imagine fireworks going off as we usher in the new year, in actuality, the fireworks tend to be nonstop from just before midnight of the lunar new year to late the next morning or afternoon. So much for sleeping. But, even if this were just for one night, I probably wouldn't mind so much - let them have their customs if I can sleep the next night. But no, the fireworks continue every night through the spring festival, which if you remember, lasts 15 days. Needless to say, we didn't get much sleep this holiday.

However, today is February 16, and the new year fireworks are quickly becoming a distant memory. Thankfully, I can once again swear never to be in China during this holiday as we are five months away from moving back to the US. So, next year send your fireworks to the sky, China. I'll be back home blissfully at peace.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Oh my carbs, where have you gone?????

On Monday Bob and I both started the South Beach diet (or as they like to call it, the "lifestyle"). Both of us truly need to lose weight, but neither of us really has the energy or willpower for massive exercising. We KNOW that we need to change our eating habits (can anyone say pasta???) but have been reluctant to do so. Over the holiday, Bob bought the South Beach Diet Super Charged book - basically the newer edition - and I jump started us on Monday. Basically, the first two weeks of the diet is devoid of any kind of carbs or sugar, including fruit.

Can I just say now. . . this sucks!!!!! Ok, that was a mite crude, but I believe it accurately states my feelings on the subject. Let me better explain:

1) I now find myself cooking everyday - literally, for hours everyday. Most of you know how much I do not enjoy cooking - in fact, I loathe it. I have been very fortunate to have a husband who actually enjoys cooking, and I must admit, I have exploited that fact. Most days Bob would come home from work and cook us dinner. Breakfast or lunch for me was usually cereal or eating out. Before you think that I am some evil, pampered spouse, I did always cook one or two days every week and we'd usually order out once. But, those days are long over as I find myself trying (and I do mean trying, I'll explain more later) to cook breakfast and dinner for both of us and lunch for myself.

2) The receipes in South Beach are actually quite good, if you can find the ingredients in Shanghai. That is a BIG if. We've always relied mostly on imports for our cooking and because we weren't really sticklers about the health nut lifestyle (yes, you should chuckle here), I never really thought about what we don't have. [Well, not for the last two years, after my initial adjustment period was over. And, I guess, not after I immediately return from the States where I am overwhelmed by all the food choices available. Let me just say I understand after living in China, why America is a fat country (myself included, of course).] Anyway, while searching for the ingredients for the receipes in South Beach, I came away with less than half of what I needed. Low fat ricotta or cottage cheese? Yeah right - I'm lucky if the full fat variety is imported. Same goes with any type of cheese. Day three called for Salmon Florentine - are you kidding me??? Now, I suppose if I even knew what the hell salmon florentine was, I perhaps could make it because seafood is abundant here. But, one - I don't like seafood and two - I've already stated how much more time I'm spending in the kitchen; I'm not about to increase it! The book does state that you do not have to follow each receipe/day exactly; you can make improvisations. I imagine that I am doing that for roughly half of the meals/snacks. Needless to say, it does not make it easier to follow this diet.

3) I am really, really tired of eggs and vegetables. Eggs seem to be on the menu for every breakfast. Back home, all of you can run to the supermarket and get a nice carton of EggBeaters. Here I am trying to make some sort of combo with the whole egg and egg whites only. Thank goodness this is only for two weeks because I can't imagine what all those eggs are doing to our cholesterol levels. :-) My other peeve is all the bell peppers. I mildly like bell peppers. If they are set in front of me with some huumus or dip, they are ok. Somebody else cooks them and puts them in my meal, I'll eat them. But, come on folks - South Beach has you eating peppers almost everyday! I know, good vitamins and all that stuff. But, frankly, I've had enough and I'm only on day 5! Granted, I know some of this problem relates back to the previous item - lack of ingredients in Shanghai. So, I tend to redo many of the receipes we do have ingredients for. Guess what those usually include????

4) Carb shock - it's the only way I can describe what immediately and completely eliminating carbs and sugar does to your body in the first few days. Day two and three for both Bob and I was filled with a strange headache and lightheadedness. Admittedly, this probably reinforces the idea that we really did need to cut back on our carb and sugar (for me, especially) intake. But, it was a little disconcerting.

After all that, I am happy to report that the diet is actually working. My cravings have definitely been reduced, I'm drinking more water, and best of all, we're losing weight. Bob is already down 3 pounds and I am down almost 5. So, I lift my water cup to you, South Beach - here's to more weight loss!